Love or Attraction ?

What was my mistake? Why I loved a person who does not even bother about me ?

Hello guys! Love Don’t know how to define it sometimes it is as sweet as sugar and sometimes it is as bitter as the bittergourd.  Sometimes it makes you feel like as if you are in heaven but sometimes it become so typical that you feel like the hell is the best place for you.

You fight with each other , you even take revenge by making each other jealous  but I want to ask you all is this ok enough to let it happen . Remember love is not about making someone jealous its about making  someone yours  completely even if they are not yours but still you are happy because they are happy with someone else.

I know it sounds crazy and stupid but that’s really true if your love is selfless then no matter what the problem you are facing you will still be in that phase.

Guys love is ok to do but sometimes its just an act  of immaturity, you can call it attraction . Now if we talk about attraction the basic sign is of anger and all those stupid things we do when we are in that mood. We just want to destroy  our loved one and make them feel low even if we know that we just love them.

Is this love ?   No its just an attraction when we have only one mind set that if the person is yours its ok and if not than they don’t deserve to be happy.

We should always keep in mind that  loyalty is not forced its earned , If they are loyal they will always remain loyal , but if they are not then you cant even force them to be the same. Just Accept that they are not made for you and move on.

You still can love that person even if they are not yours, Because love is unconditional it is not rented and you don’t have to pay the due every day.

If your partner is getting irritated and frustrated from you at every step then stop forcing them , just give them their space. This is a sign that they are not angry but they are just suffocated in this relationship . Various reasons can be there may be you are over protected , over possessive , or may be other reasons.

If you are getting more cozy with someone else , this will definitely make your partner feel insecure and angry , they will not tell you maybe but they will not like this  there will be some kind of change in their behavior .

IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE’S PETALS  YOU HAVE TO LOVE THEIR THORNS TOO!

And if you can love their thorns, their problems, their insecurities, their weaknesses then surely this is not love may be you like them , may be you are attracted but definitely you don’t love them.

So try to fetch out the differences between these two, because if you want to be in a serious relationship you have  first learn how to love because its not easy darling to be in long lasting  love.

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